Time-Consuming Administrative Work Is an Essential Part of Caregiving

Photo credit Ayo Ogunsiende Dear Carol: I visit my dad in assisted living and my mom in memory care several times a week. They're reasonably happy given their health challenges and are active and well cared for. I manage their health care including their prescriptions and I accompany them to their medical appointments. Additionally, I take care of their finances including insurance and taxes. Yet when Mom asks why I don’t stay with her longer when I visit, or my brother wonders why I don’t spend hours every day with each of our parents, I feel guilty. It’s hard to explain to others how time-consuming and emotionally wearing the combination of visits and the administrative aspects of caregiving can be. I have a marriage, children, and a job all needing my time. I just don’t feel like I can do more, but I can’t shake the guilt. – TL Continue reading on Inforum to learn more about how to respond to those who don't understand the considerable time and energy we spend doing the admin work for your older adults: Support a caregiver or jump-start discussion in support groups with real stories - for bulk orders of Minding Our Elders e-mail Carol   Need incontinence support for yourself or someone else? Try Egosan’s Incontinence Support Group on Facebook Egosan wants to help you live your life fully: Try Egosan premium underwear for discreet dignified protection via Amazon and use the Promo Code AskCarol10 ***Egosan is PEFC certified. This c...
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